The purpose of this book/journal is inspire and encourage you to strengthen your relationship with God in preparation to be a better husband, spiritual leader, and prayer warrior for your future wife, children, friends, and community; let the lord give you the peace as you wait for your future wife, protecting your heart and transforming your character to reflect the character of Jesus. This will give you patience to wait for His timing and His perfect will.
It’s about becoming more —by becoming less of you and more like Him.
It’s about surrender, not striving.
Stillness, not pressure.
Process, not perfection.
What This Journal Is:
- A tool to deepen your relationship with Jesus.
- A space to be honest with yourself and with God.
- Grounded preparation for your future role as a husband, father, leader, and warrior.
- A place to grow in discipline, prayer, and identity.
What This Journal Is Not:
- It’s not a dating strategy.
- It’s not a checklist for becoming “worthy” of a wife.
- It’s not a race to be finished quickly.
This is about becoming a man who loves the Lord with all his heart, soul, mind, and strength—regardless of relationship status. God’s purpose for you goes far beyond marriage, but your preparation now will shape every role you step into later.

